Biggest tragedy in life

What is the biggest tragedy in life?
Somebody will tell it is death.....but how it will be?
....................................NO...........................
Biggest tragedy in life is the condition when we are unable to use our ability...our thinking power.......
Means when we are like a machine...This is the biggest tragedy in our life....
Try to escape from that..and utilize your life.....Otherwise what is the meaning of "living" in this world.
Just like a robot....doing same work daily.......Think like a human...not like a machine........Do work like a human...with out any proud.....Think always we are living in earth..............

Do not except much from others...Do not dissappoint those who expect little from U...

Expectation!!!
'Blessed is the man who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed' was the ninth beatitude"
(Alexander Pope:)

"To free us from the expectations of others, to give us back to ourselves--there lies the great, singular power of self-respect"

Joan Didion

Think ...Expectation is a big issue.....Am I correct??.....It will create so many unnecessary questions in our mind.......
We should behave to others in a well respective manner.....and we have to help them without any expectation.....

The house doesn't recieves guests......not recieves any angels.......will be like a desert.....

What is meaning by this.....?









If somebody asks,my answer will only "one".............Means Our mind...or about our thinking level...........Yes...I can surely tell like that.......
U see, we can consider our mind as a house.............
If we are not ready to accept others........or not ready to accept good things and nice habits from others...then our mind will be like desert..that does not receives any rain....like bare land with out any plantations.......................without any precipitation........
Think the human or any other organisms life in desert...it will be a deadly environment for lifeforms.......
Mind is also like that...if we do not have any "good things" in our mind, angels will not come and stay in our mind.......Am I correct????
Otherwise think......We have to accept others....we have to try...... to see good things in others....."Positive thoughts"...We should have the ability to distinguish good and bad.......................
U see..if we are not accepting others or if we are not accepting good things from others..How we can tell our mind is a good place for angel to stay.............In the case of house also same condition no?...
We have to think....How it will be?.........

So always make ready your mind ...to become the house of angels....................

Walking through the Garden of Life....

Imagine you are doing some rose plantation....think...you have to cut the stem carefully...surely, if you are doing this kind of job...thorns from the plant will usually pierce to hand and will get pain too....Then we have to give proper care by giving vital nutrients...we have to protect from pest and diseases....have to do proper pruning...but after some days it will blossom..then we will not think the pain behind that....Life is also like that....It is like a beautiful garden......So maintain it properly.....add good nutrients....means through out life take good thoughts as nutrients..and recognize and avoid bad habits.....nourish our mind with good thoughts...then you will become a good educated person.....that will be the real education too.....you can see many people around you...those who are having very high education...(actually we can not tell like that....)...they know they are doing bad ..but then also they are repeating the same....what we can call them..how we can tell they are educated.....their thinking level has to improve....they have to realize they are human beings....then only we can tell them as educated... "Realizing themselves as humans and accept others also" this is the real education....

You should have the power to overcome all the mountain like objections in front of you....Be powerful...Be positive .....Be strong enough to do the things according to the truth

Reflection .............

see the reflection of the flower...like that our mind will also reflect...so keep the mind always fresh and think good things ....because thoughts will reflect in our character

Why .....why I could n't tell like that....
No you should not tell like that...........
Be confident in your voice and be bold too.......
And take care in making friends too.................
Friendship can affect us positively or negatively.....
All humans are good only...we can accept their positive sides..
Try to see their positive .....
But somebody will affect you very badly.........
Good friends make us more creative and more powerful....
Bad friendship will affect us in different way................It is like cancerous tissue....
Then what we can do....
What we will do if our fingertips or any other part of the body are affected by some disease in dangerous manner....
We will treat with proper medicine...But in some case medicine also cann't cure that..Then......
We will cut that portion ..otherwise it will spread to other tissue also......
Like that we must avoid and cut the friendship with the person that will affect you badly...
But you should not hate them........
Try to understand them ...pray for them.....but take care that it should not make any influence on you

What we are searching for...?

We are always searching....what...?
We can compare ourselves as letters with wrong address....
That is why we are always searching....... for the correct address.....
Finally we will recognize the correct address and will reach the destination...
ie..We will recognize that God only the actual owner...and will reach to him....

Friendship

You have the power....

hi...why you are not recognizing yourself...
You know you have the strong power inside...
You can do anything...and everything with that..........
So try to understand your power and be creative.........

Take care about our thoughts............

hi what your are thinking now.....

Take care about your thoughts....

Thoughts can make us happy or sometimes unhappy.....

Because we all are based on our thoughts.

Its the basis of life...

Try to take all things as positive.....

Always think forward........

Try to see good things in others......

Do not worry about "what others may think" ?

Do not be afraid when you are getting problems......

Just think Swami Vivekananda's quote

"In a day when you donot come across any problem you can be sure that you are travelling in the wrong path"

Problems are actually helping us to grow......

Be positive...Be happy.........because nobody knows what is going to happen in the next moment......
Then why to waste time by thinking unnecessary matters....................................................................

Do not hate anyone in your life..........
Try to understand everybody..............
Take the positive side always..............
Just think.....they are also doing something to you no?
what?....Why you cann't believe.................................
Someone in your life makes you so happy.................
Someone gives you several experience......................
And someone teaches you.."HOW TO FACE TROUBLES"

From Swamy Vivekananda................................

When I Asked God for Strength
He Gave Me Difficult Situations to Face

When I Asked God for Brain & Brown
He Gave Me Puzzles in Life to Solve

When I Asked God for Happiness
He Showed Me Some Unhappy People

When I Asked God for Wealth
He Showed Me How to Work Hard

When I Asked God for Favors
He Showed Me Opportunities to Work Hard

When I Asked God for Peace
He Showed Me How to Help Others

God Gave Me Nothing I Wanted
He Gave Me Everything I Needed
- Swami Vivekananda

Hi this poem is very nice....do not know about poet...anyway.....

If you want to be happy........................

Everybody like happiness....for getting that what we can do???
The most important thing is that.....
"if you want to be happy.................................Make others happy................"
If you want love ,.............................................Give others love....................
If you want friends ,..........................................Be a friend of others.............
If you want real success and fulfillment in life, ..............................................
Try for it without lossing confidence................and help others......................
Be creative...........................AND always think nothing is impossible, If you heart is willing.........

KEEP SMILING...................

Click in the figure .....

So, KEEP SMILING :-)

"Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire,
If you did, what would there be to look forward to?
Be thankful when you don't know something,
for it gives you the opportunity to learn."

"Be thankful for your mistakes.
They will teach you valuable lessons.
Be thankful when you're tired and weary,
because it means you've made a difference."

Smile.....always.........................
We are here for a short time......
Can You tell about next moment?
Then why you are tensed??why?
Be happy always..........................
Having a smile, always in your lips...
That makes others also happy........

Look.................it is exactly based on our life......sure......

Mental training

For what...........................?
Just think.......oh! it is enough.......
The most important part of our life........
All are based on our mind......................
So we should train our mind properly..........


I got a good site regarding this

http://mahamakuta.inet.co.th/english/b-way.html

Swami Vivekananda's Speech (The World Parliament of Religions, Chicago WELCOME ADDRESS - Chicago, Sept 11, 1893)

Sisters and Brothers of America,

It fills my heart with joy unspeakable to rise in response to the warm and cordial welcome which you have given us. l thank you in the name of the most ancient order of monks in the world; I thank you in the name of the mother of religions; and I thank you in the name of the millions and millions of Hindu people of all classes and sects.

My thanks, also, to some of the speakers on this platform who, referring to the delegates from the Orient, have told you that these men from far-off nations may well claim the honor of bearing to different lands the idea of toleration. I am proud to belong to a religion which has taught the world both tolerance and universal acceptance. We believe not only in universal toleration, but we accept all religions as true. I am proud to belong to a nation which has sheltered the persecuted and the refugees of all religions and all nations of the earth. I am proud to tell you that we have gathered in our bosom the purest remnant of the Israelites, who came to the southern India and took refuge with us in the very year in which their holy temple was shattered to pieces by Roman tyranny. I am proud to belong to the religion which has sheltered and is still fostering the remnant of the grand Zoroastrian nation. I will quote to you, brethren, a few lines from a hymn which I remember to have repeated from my earliest boyhood, which is every day repeated by millions of human beings:

"As the different streams having their sources in different
places all mingle their water in the sea, so, O Lord, the
different paths which men take through different tendencies,
various though they appear, crooked or straight, all lead to Thee."

The present convention, which is one of the most august assemblies ever held, is in itself a vindication, a declaration to the world, of the wonderful doctrine preached in the Gita:

"Whosoever comes to Me, through whatsoever form, I reach him;
all men are struggling through paths which in the end lead to Me."

Sectarianism, bigotry, and its horrible descendant, fanaticism, have long possessed this beautiful earth. They have filled the earth with violence, drenched it often and often with human blood, destroyed civilization, and sent whole nations to despair. Had it not been for these horrible demons, human society would be far more advanced than it is now. But their time has come; and I fervently hope that the bell that tolled this morning in honor of this convention may be the death-knell of all fanaticism, of all persecutions with the sword or with the pen, and of all uncharitable feelings between persons wending their way to the same goal.

If you want to read more go to the site :-
http://www.caip.rutgers.edu/~kanth/jwz/mbm/sv/svindex.html

Stopping By Woods On A Snowy Evening ( Robert Frost)

Whose woods these are I think I know.
His house is in the village though;
He will not see me stopping here
To watch his woods fill up with snow.

My little horse must think it queer

To stop without a farmhouse near

Between the woods and frozen lake

The darkest evening of the year.

He gives his harness bells a shake

To ask if there is some mistake.

The only other sound's the sweep

Of easy wind and downy flake.

The woods are lovely, dark and deep.

But I have promises to keep,

And miles to go before I sleep,

And miles to go before I sleep.

If you want to read more poems from Robest Frost go to :-
http://www.ketzle.com/frost/

Tulips(Sylvia plath)

The tulips are too excitable, it is winter here.
Look how white everything is, how quiet, how snowed-in.
I am learning peacefulness, lying by myself quietly
As the light lies on these white walls, this bed, these hands.
I am nobody; I have nothing to do with explosions.
I have given my name and my day-clothes up to the nurses
And my history to the anesthetist and my body to surgeons.

They have propped my head between the pillow and the sheet-cuff
Like an eye between two white lids that will not shut.
Stupid pupil, it has to take everything in.
The nurses pass and pass, they are no trouble,
They pass the way gulls pass inland in their white caps,
Doing things with their hands, one just the same as another,
So it is impossible to tell how many there are.

My body is a pebble to them, they tend it as water
Tends to the pebbles it must run over, smoothing them gently.
They bring me numbness in their bright needles, they bring me sleep
Now I have lost myself I am sick of baggage
My patent leather overnight case like a black pillbox,
My husband and child smiling out of the family photo;
Their smiles catch onto my skin, little smiling hooks.

I have let things slip, a thirty-year~old cargo boat
Stubbornly hanging on to my name and address.
They have swabbed me clear of my loving associations.
Scared and bare on the green plastic-pillowed trolley
I watched my teaset, my bureaus of linen, my books
Sink out of sight, and the water went over my head.
I am a nun now, I have never been so pure.

I didn't want any flowers, I only wanted
To lie with my hands turned up and be utterly empty.
How free it is, you have no idea how free -
The peacefulness is so big it dazes you,
And it asks nothing, a name tag, a few trinkets.
It is what the dead close on, finally; I imagine them
Shutting their mouths on it, like a Communion tablet.

The tulips are too red in the first place, they hurt me.
Even through the gift paper I could hear them breathe
Lightly, through their white swaddlings, like an awful baby.
Their redness talks to my wound, it corresponds.
They are subtle: they seem to float, though they weigh me down
Upsetting me with their sudden tongues and their color,
A dozen red lead sinkers round my neck.

Nobody watched me before, now I am watched.
The tulips turn to me, and the window behind me
Where once a day the light slowly widens and slowly thins,
And I see myself, flat, ridiculous, a cut-paper shadow
Between the eye of the sun and the eyes of the tulips,
And I have no face, I have wanted to efface myself
The vivid tulips eat my oxygen.

Before they came the air was calm enough,
Coming and going, breath by breath, without any fuss.
Then the tulips filled it up like a loud noise.
Now the air snags and eddies round them the way a river
Snags and eddies round a sunken rust-red engine.
They concentrate my attention, that was happy
Playing and resting without committing itself.

The walls, also, seem to be warming themselves.
The tulips should be behind bars like dangerous animals;
They are opening like the mouth of some great African cat,
And I am aware of my heart: it opens and closes
Its bowl of red blooms out of sheer love of me.
The water I taste is warm and salt, like the sea,
And comes from a country far away as health.


For more poems from Sylvia Plath visit the site:-

http://www.stanford.edu/class/engl187/docs/plathpoem.html
http://www.internal.org/list_poems.phtml?authorID=13

A short story

..Yes i can hear the sound of train.....But the problem is that i cann't recognize ...in which direction it is going......East....or West....no....South or North.......no i cann't..........................
Time is going to 6.30pm....i like this time ......i cann't explain how much........why?
Light breeze .......songs from temple.........colourfull sky.........
yes.....some birds there......migratory birds.........they are going back to their nest.....
i also want to fly with them......through my imagination i started to fly.....but in unconscious mind....
with full of consciousness i tried to pull back the string of my mind...but it is not coming......it is going away...far away from my body.......
Now i am far away from my home.....in the sky....now i am able to see full mountains,......top of big big trees............rivers..........humans are appearing as small..small...ant like.........huge buildings are like soap boxes.....now in this condition i started to think about human life........it is not a permanent one.....it is very short......but then also they are quarrelling eachother..........why? for what?? then words of swami vivekananda came to mind....."now you are living in the rented house.....You should give the rent to the owner before you are leaving ...otherwise that is not fare""....am i right??? i think now i can touch the sky....but ohh..it is not possible.....it is still far.......ohh......now i can see some stars in sky.......it is the time to go back.......but it is very nice to go through the sky along with flying birds....................something is coming from that side.....what is that??ohh! God...is it going to rain? big big clouds are coming..........poor stars...birds......i can clearly see all trees started to smile...... ......i started to return.......near to my home....all people are running.....................i want to be there...but a voice.......gadha...gadha.......ohh!why grandma.....i am here only....I murmered..................................

"Roll Model"
Don't try to imitate others.....
You can live according to your views....
It is your world...world of happiness....and sorrows...
We are creating this...why you cann't agree??
Don't take anyone as your roll model......
But you must try to become a model by yourself
........through your journey of life...............

"Train the Mind properly................................."

Just think How we can achieve .....................?

a) Mental calmness
b) Control of senses
c) Fearlessness
d) Patience
e) Forbearance
f) Universal friendship
g) Faith
h) Devotion
i) Creative power, adventure, experimentation

Each persons mentality will be of different types...someone's well developed...and in others poorly developed.........But everyone has the ability to train mind to improve strength, willpower and moral values....

Education, consists of school and university education related to arts, science,....etc. For giving good education and morality to people, society builds schools and colleges.

But unfortunately recent trends showing gradual decrease in ethical & moral values. Why.....??

Why it is like that??? We should think surely.....Am i right??? You can also imagine......What a pathetic condition!

What may be the reason behind that?.....Due to the problem of education......may be...or may not be......

Due to the unproper education system now a days most students are like machines....ohhh!! Horrible condition......they are far away from humanity....

To where these humans are running........any way they will reach same place....but they do not have time.....

But anyway, in this situation also You Can train Your Mind Properly....But thing is that You must have the mind for that........


Mind can be trained to radiate strength, peace, and honesty by way of cultivating such virtues as truthfulness, self-control, humility, and compassion.


We must surely develop the quality of fearlessness to make our mind more strong so that it would follow the path we want to take.

Fear of failure, fear of consequences, fear of 'what others would say', etc. ...we can surely avoid these thoughts.... The more we experience the truth that we are pure spirit, the more we become fearless.

We should make good friendship also....

One should not restricted to live in small pond, during the small journey of life.....think broadly..............hope the best.........

O.K.....will start to train?

"Time" most valuable...................
What is the most valuable thing we can give to some one???......
It is "Time"...Giving time to some one .....that is the best thing we can do for others......we will never get back that........so give time to people who suffering from pain.......Just look the time machine...it is running fast......only in forward direction.....never it is going backward............Like that adjust our life,utilize time in a correct way and always think forward...think positively.......

Look.............How beautiful it is....................God's Own Painting.........How he combined colors....!!!!!!

Why education???...for what???
What is the meaning of education......
It is not meaning study of something.....
It is not the study of science or mathematics......
We all are human beings.........understand first that..and give equality to all...
Infront of me doctors,proffessors...beggars all are equal.......
somebody is saying that he is busy...who?...then at what time he will be free.....after death???Each minute is valuable to us................for everyone.........................
But now a days all are proud...for what???.........look this butterfly...it is very nice.............go through the life history of butterfly.............moulting.................from egg---pupa----last beautiful winged creature....but life span is very less...all are like that only...........In everyday we are approaching to God .............In this beautiful world only less time is allowed to us...so do not waste that.............Help others maximum you can.......and give respect to others...........................actual education lead us to God..............

Why we are here???

Why we are here....in this beautiful world?
Why God sent us Here...for what?
Now we are in a rented house.....here in this earth...
Any way one day we should go back..
Before that we must give the rent.....
So do something good to society.......

"Quest For God" From Swami Vivekananda

O'ver hill and dale and mountain range,
In temple, church, and mosque,
In Vedas, Bible, Al Koran
I had searched for Thee in vain.

Like a child in the wildest forest lost
I have cried and cried alone,
"Where art Thou gone, my God, my love?
The echo answered, "gone."

And days and nights and years then passed
A fire was in the brain,
I knew not when day changed in night
The heart seemed rent in twain.
I laid me down on Ganges's shore,
Exposed to sun and rain;
With burning tears I laid the dust
And wailed with waters' roar.

I called on all the holy names
Of every clime and creed.
"Show me the way, in mercy, ye
Great ones who have reached the goal."

Years then passed in bitter cry,
Eacch moment seemed an age,
Till one day midst my cries and groans
Some one seemed calling me.

A gentle soft and soothing voice
That said 'my son' 'my son',
That seemed to thrill in unison
With all the chords of my soul.

I stood on my feet and tried to find
The place the voice came from;
I searched and searched and turned to see
Round me, before, behind,
Again, again it seemed to speak
The voice divine to me.
In rapture all my soul was hushed,
Entranced, enthralled in bliss.

A flash illumined all my soul;
The heart of my heart opened wide.
O joy, O bliss, what do I find!
My love, my love you are here
And you are here, my love, my all!

And I was searching thee -
From all eternity you were there
Enthroned in majesty!
From that day forth, wherever I roam,
I feel Him standing by
O'ver hill and dale, high mount and vale,
Far far away and high.

The moon's soft light, the stars so bright,
The glorious orb of day,
He shines in them; His beauty - might -
Reflected lights are they.
The majestic morn, the melting eve,
Teh boundless billowing sea,
In nature's beauty, songs of birds,
I see through them - it is He.

When dire calamity seizes me,
The heart seems weak and faint,
All natures seems to crush me down,
With laws that enver bend.
Meseems I hear Thee whispering sweet
My love, "I am near", "I am near".
My heart gets strong.