Do not except much from others...Do not dissappoint those who expect little from U...

Expectation!!!
'Blessed is the man who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed' was the ninth beatitude"
(Alexander Pope:)

"To free us from the expectations of others, to give us back to ourselves--there lies the great, singular power of self-respect"

Joan Didion

Think ...Expectation is a big issue.....Am I correct??.....It will create so many unnecessary questions in our mind.......
We should behave to others in a well respective manner.....and we have to help them without any expectation.....

The house doesn't recieves guests......not recieves any angels.......will be like a desert.....

What is meaning by this.....?









If somebody asks,my answer will only "one".............Means Our mind...or about our thinking level...........Yes...I can surely tell like that.......
U see, we can consider our mind as a house.............
If we are not ready to accept others........or not ready to accept good things and nice habits from others...then our mind will be like desert..that does not receives any rain....like bare land with out any plantations.......................without any precipitation........
Think the human or any other organisms life in desert...it will be a deadly environment for lifeforms.......
Mind is also like that...if we do not have any "good things" in our mind, angels will not come and stay in our mind.......Am I correct????
Otherwise think......We have to accept others....we have to try...... to see good things in others....."Positive thoughts"...We should have the ability to distinguish good and bad.......................
U see..if we are not accepting others or if we are not accepting good things from others..How we can tell our mind is a good place for angel to stay.............In the case of house also same condition no?...
We have to think....How it will be?.........

So always make ready your mind ...to become the house of angels....................

Walking through the Garden of Life....

Imagine you are doing some rose plantation....think...you have to cut the stem carefully...surely, if you are doing this kind of job...thorns from the plant will usually pierce to hand and will get pain too....Then we have to give proper care by giving vital nutrients...we have to protect from pest and diseases....have to do proper pruning...but after some days it will blossom..then we will not think the pain behind that....Life is also like that....It is like a beautiful garden......So maintain it properly.....add good nutrients....means through out life take good thoughts as nutrients..and recognize and avoid bad habits.....nourish our mind with good thoughts...then you will become a good educated person.....that will be the real education too.....you can see many people around you...those who are having very high education...(actually we can not tell like that....)...they know they are doing bad ..but then also they are repeating the same....what we can call them..how we can tell they are educated.....their thinking level has to improve....they have to realize they are human beings....then only we can tell them as educated... "Realizing themselves as humans and accept others also" this is the real education....